Everyone thinks that they have a ton of friends, but do you? We have all heard the old saying "to have friends you must be friendly". Well, one thing that I have learned since being out of work for two months is that your true friends can usually be counted on one hand. Some of your true friends will be people that you didn't expect. I have found out who my true friends are, whether it is a phone call, an invitation to come over and just hang out, or someone bringing a dish of food over and hanging out for awhile. Then there is family. My brother and I have never been close and I think that is due to the age difference. Ten years separate us, but I have to say that my brother has been a great friend through this time in my life. If you have some good close friends you are truly lucky. I am a lucky man indeed.